This Program is For You If...
You wish your children listened and obeyed without you having to resort to yelling and threats.
You don’t want to parent this way, you fear deep down that you’re ruining them… you’re know there is a better way to parent, but you just don’t know how.
You're looking, spending time reading parenting books, maybe even invested in a course or two, but don’t find any tangible help for YOU in YOUR circumstance with YOUR kids.
You feel like you’re trying, but that nothing you do works, and you lay in bed at night wondering silently if maybe you aren’t cut out for this whole parenting thing?!
You're tired all the time, even when you happen to get a good night's sleep. It's deeper than that, your soul is exhausted.
You sometimes feel good about all the things you are doing but there is a voice in the back of your mind that tells you that your life is actually a mess and you're doing a terrible job (and the voice sounds pretty darn convincing).
You don't spend time on yourself, you don't even remember what you like doing anymore. Your life revolves around dinnertimes, schedules, kids activities, and preventing the next big fight.
The worst part of all this is that these problems lead to resentment aimed at your children
You're not alone
Thousands of mothers feel lost in their motherhood, don't feel like they know themselves anymore and don't know the solution. They want their kids to listen and to create a home filled with peace, joy and contentment, but don't know where to start. Using rewards and punishments in parenting are band-aid solutions, they won't fix the root cause of the behaviour issues you so desperately want to change.
Deep down, you've probably felt the whispering that something different is out there, a new way of thinking, parenting, and being.
There is! Let me show you!
There is one powerful concept that is fundamental to your relationships with your children.
Working on YOU, NOT THEM is the most effective way to raise emotionally intelligent children.
This isn't a cheap gimmick. It's sustainable and has lasting results.
You may be thinking: this won't work for me, my kids are TOO difficult, it's too late, it's not unique enough for my situation.
It will, and has been proven over and over again in my own life and the lives of my clients.
This is what you can learn and achieve with me in By Design.
I believe in the tools.... and more importantly, I believe in YOU.
Experiences from "By Design" Members
"I feel so much more capable, a bad day doesn’t send me into a spiral. My whole household is more at peace and more manageable. My son apologizes now when it is appropriate instead of when he feels like we want him too."
Anonymous
"I was able to help my child process emotions this week and was surprised at how well it worked!"
Andrea
"She has helped me to understand the dynamic in my marriage so that I can connect with my husband productively and positively."
A. M.
In By Design You Get

Monthly Lessons
New lessons each month to give you the tools to make lasting change in your home

Group Coaching
Weekly group coaching to help you implement and maintain the changes you're looking for

Expert Speakers
Monthly guest experts on topics that will help with your specific struggles

Community
Support from the By Design Community PLUS Other bonuses and perks ;)
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